Relationships need effort, time, understanding and commitment. They might sound natural and spontaneous but there is a long story behind every successful relationship. These qualities could be cultivated in a natural manner with the help of creative visualization. Let’s see the best way to do it.
Develop patience The best way to develop and progress a relationship is to develop patience for others. You must learn to put up with difference and polarities. You should start by understanding the basic working of this universe. The universe works in a subtle system where opposites coexist peacefully. Relationships are all about creating harmony and synching with polarities. You should start by simple principle of morality i-e to place yourself in other’s shoes and see how it feels like. Once I asked a friend about the secret behind her happy married life and she answered that whenever there is a conflict I simply visualize myself as the other person. This exercise transforms my attitude and makes me humble and understanding.
This example would surely have given you the clue to the solution. Whenever we face conflicts and tensions, we make decisions and devise our behavior in the light of our personal perspective. This myopic attitude makes us more rigid and less flexible. Creative visualization will guide you in transcending the boundaries of your personality and entering the heart and soul of the other person. You have to start with simple meditative practices like sitting alone and concentrate. Another good idea would be to use quantum jumping techniques. You can leap into the universe of the other person and experience his world. Meditative techniques will help you in quantum jumping into the other life. You should spend some time as that person in his world.
This experience will help you in bringing back the better understanding of his behavior.
Read the life Reading is also recommended meditative therapy. It helps in creating better understanding of human nature and different human characters. Start reading fiction and you will feel the difference in your understanding and relationships. For example Somerset Maugha
m will make you equally love and sympathies every character in a murder mystery. Readers can visualize in a better way. It might sound illogical or irrelevant to you but once you start doing it, it will really helps and absolutely makes sense. The process of reading is actually a process of visualizing . Sometimes the readers become the character or part of the story without even realizing it.
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Visualize the result creative visualization will help you in estimating the result of every fight and conflict. You can foresee the consequences of your actions and mend your ways. A little practice and exercise will make the process simple and smooth for you. Every time you feel unsure and disturbed then invoke your visualizing powers and make the choice.
The power to build healthy relationships lies right in your hands. All you have to do is realize your potentials and spend a better life. After all healthy relationships lead to healthy and happy life.